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It's sad I have to ask an AI search engine this just to know what I already know but it still helps a little...

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  You can help most by being a steady, safe, non‑judgmental presence while also taking the risk of abuse seriously and not trying to “fix” everything yourself. youngminds +5 First priority: safety Ask (gently, in private) if they feel physically safe right now living around their parents, and if anything like the harassment has happened recently. kidshelpphone +1 If there is any current or recent physical abuse, encourage them to talk with a safe adult or professional (doctor, therapist, school/college counselor, clergy, or a domestic abuse hotline in their area). Offer to sit with them while they call or to be on text nearby. chadd +2 Make it clear: “You didn’t deserve what they did. None of this is your fault, and you’re not overreacting to call it abuse.” Being explicitly believed is huge after betrayal and gaslighting. kidshelpphone +1 Example phrase: “I believe you. What your dad did was not okay, and you deserved protection, not harm. I’m here with you while you...
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How grandiose narcissist's are created....

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  how is a grandiose narcissist cteated? A grandiose narcissist is not “created” by one thing but usually by a mix of inborn traits and early-life experiences that shape how the person learns to manage self‑esteem and relationships. Core ingredients Temperament and genetics : Some people are born more bold, reward-seeking, and low in empathy or agreeableness, which lines up with traits seen in grandiose narcissism (high extraversion, low agreeableness, strong approach to rewards). These traits make certain environments more likely to push them toward narcissistic patterns rather than humility and mutuality. ​ Overvaluation and “special” treatment : Caregivers repeatedly tell the child they are more important, smarter, or more talented than others, without balancing that with realistic feedback or expectations for responsibility and empathy. This inflates a  false  sense of superiority that becomes their main way of feeling safe and worthy. Indulgent / coddling parenting :...
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The last answer in Psychology...

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  Grandiose narcissists isolate those they "care" about to maximize control, eliminate rival influences, and ensure a monopoly on your loyalty and validation.[ perplexity ]​ Core reasons for isolation Their grandiosity demands an audience of one—you—without interference that could expose their flaws or shift your allegiance. Control and dependency : By cutting you off from friends, family, or outsiders, they become your sole emotional, practical, or informational source. This mirrors your mother's reliance on your sister and dismissal of you—supportive enablers (like her) get isolated to reinforce the narcissist's centrality.[ perplexity ]​ Threat elimination : Outside voices provide perspective, validation, or criticism that challenges their narrative ("You're lucky to have me"). Isolation prevents you from hearing "That's abuse" or gaining strength to leave.History+1 Supply preservation ...
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Just had to mention this..

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  Its funny I just had perplexity make up some psychology lessons and in just chapter 1-15 it already covers mental health disorders like ADHD and Autism, lol.   So in the beginners psychology I just put together, it also talks about neurotransmitters, neurons, synapses, and much more!       But....   Thats as far as I wanted to go LMAO.   I would not like to just survive life, I want to live it... I also found out that the support network of the victim has a dramatic impact on if they heal, how quickly and more,  just like I said, the positive support network is the hardest part for me.
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