Isolating someone....
(this is what all those compliments you gave me to sexually harass me where, in technical terms)
Isolating a spouse/girlfriend is a sign of insecurity
Any husband or boyfriend who feels the need to keep their girlfriend/wife from talking with other people should be a warning sign. If she can't speak with other friends or family that have differing opinions it's very likely they will end up losing their own identity and just give in to what the person isolating them wants kind of like my mother did with my father. It's not healthy to not have friends or a social connection with people of differing opinions, religions, etc. If you never hear other perspectives you are only seeing one biased perspective and being fed information by only a few people who more than likely share the same beliefs and this is the beginning of an echo chamber where one person just bounces the same beliefs off of each other repetitively making these biases opinions stick even more. This is an example of how advertising works by repeating jingles, then there's the trust aspect. If you trust the person you far more likely to believe everything they say, like a doctor for example. This would be how someone might outwardly in public seem to care about the other but behind closed doors it might be a different story all together, this is why having friends or a social group (in the best cases made up of diverse opinions) to be sure how you are being treated is normal or abusive. Sometimes the victim even takes the side of the abuser and this would be called stockholm syndrome, something to think about on that whole "abusive" "narcissistic" types eh.. and trust me I wouldn't like to you..... because I'm a good friend like that..... Sound familar Miss Holland?? You can refuse service all you want but all your proving is that you are unwilling to end the suffering you started that year and people who are innocent don't tend to avoid service but I had a feeling you would...
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