Since narcissist's hate the truth so much, here's another dose of truth for the one's that I know the best.

 

My family and their beliefs are contradictory.  They study a book yet practice none of it’s preachings and have even thought the world was going to end each year for the past 5 years, and practically none of them show empathy, humility, or care about their own family members and if they believe money equals love then who has received the most yet given the least?  Who has gotten all of the support over the years and can’t even listen or show empathy?  Who has been the selfish ones seeking only to gain social status then abuse the status and I can’t even understand why anyone would look up to them at all.  In college, you typically read a book for a semester and then take a test and move on to the next book yet my grandmother has been reading the same book her entire life yet hasn’t shown her youngest any empathy until  she fell and hurt herself, it’s like the only way my family learns is the hard way, and takes out all their anger on me and my aunt for no reason instead of lifting each other up, they go Kristen’s route of just tearing each other down, and just like my grandmother still won’t give up control of even her youngest daughter’s inheritance to ease her financial  pains while also buying herself a walk in shower, when her daughter needed one just as badly.  Do you think any other family members go by and show genuine empathy for my aunt and provide her any meaningful support?  Nope they absolutely do not while they as in my mother do the exact same thing granny blames all of my aunts problems on, when it was actually her lack of support or backing her up, just as they did me.  If they wanted to have a competition on who remembers the most about each other family members lives, I’d love to compete in that competition because they would lose so badly it would prove just how selfish and self-centered they truly are.  They are great at keeping secrets from the ones who need answers the most then using opiates and THC to forget all about their lack of support and even making up detail to past events that never happened.  Even Chris Loper recently made up an event that didn’t happen because only I know what actually happened and he has no reason to be so forgetful unless he is just self-centered and a grandiose narcissist just like my grandmother only seeking social status and lacking basic empathy.  Any narcissist can be a smooth talker but when it comes down to it the ability to listen and retain information about other people’s lives and Empathy is the key factor they are severly lacking in.  They should try the interactive games on my website to teach people how to recognize these behaviors and tendencies but instead they just ignore thinking they are somehow better than everyone else.  The truth is if god gave them a gift they are the most selfish with the gift they were given and only seek to keep control of, manipulate, and play the victims while they have achieved all they will ever achieve in life already and I can only assume since their lack of support, that they enjoy causing the suffering of their own family, can you imagine how they feel about their community if they treat their family this badly?  And only show support to the family that doesn’t need any support?  If they think they are right, then they should prove it with their actions and not just empty words as they have in the past.  I believe in facts, evidence, track records, documentation and I have proven my mother wrong so many times I’m really tired of proving her wrong and now I bet you she get’s dementia at an early age just like her father did due to his drinking, and he may have been physically abusive, how many times, they won’t answer that one but the emotional abuse of the silent treatment for nearly 2 years while being so easily fooled by the other narcissist’s who did the torturing at night, who also talked to each one but they probably knew how no one in the family communicated with each other effectively, so Judy talked to my mother and she said “oh she had nothing but nice things to say about you” and I said “sure she did, to your face”  but little did I know my mother was the same way, and I already knew my sister hated me for no reason due to her track record.  While Tisha talked to my dad, and believe me she knows how to inflate someone’s ego to extract information out  of them, and Kyle only contacted my grandmother on a few occasions.  So these people took advantage of the fact that everyone knows that my biological family cannot communicate with each other very well at all even mom and dad can’t communicate very well.  While Kristen only fans the flames or starts drama due to her own misery that I will never join, and even missed the classic symptoms in her own son, but my youngest aunt noticed or remembered, I wonder why my mother can’t remember? Even to this day he shows the classic symptoms of ADHD but his is due to environmental factors like his mother’s opiate addiction that as far as I know still has not conquered to this day.  So they use projection and blame shifting to avoid having to deal with all the destruction they have caused in their own family’s lives.  It’s too bad I’m not a self-centered narcissist like them, then I might have achieved my goals instead of helping them most of my life and how grateful are they for all the help I have given them in the past?  Not one bit.  Complete strangers are more grateful, caring and show more empathy than they ever will.  If I’m wrong PROVE IT.  If I’m right just keep on being your narcissistic selves, no one expects anything more than that out of my family because actions speak louder than words.