When you only hear one side of any topic, debate, or discussion then your perspective is lacking.....
I can see the correlation of Cyndie to
Kristen just as Lisa is to Jordan. They
only hear one side of any idea, are afraid of change, and only blame rather
than solve any problems.
My family thinks that if they don’t
hear opposing opinions then they won’t ever have to deal with the fact that
they are wrong, and refuse to admit it, only when you are able to admit when you’re
not right will you ever learn something new.
Inventors didn’t get their inventions right the first time or without
other people’s input. If you don’t have
a diverse circle of differing opinions that are open minded enough to know that
they don’t know it all, then you will never have the full picture or
perspective of anything. Echo chambers
are just bubbles of like minded people that just repeat each other’s biases
like an echo reaffirming each other, only solidifying their pre-existing
biases. Maybe we should treat those just
like pre-existing conditions in the health industry, those that have very
apparent biases should be given much less weight because they are common and
predictable.
If people were made to swear on the bible or something equivalent like
we do in a courtroom to remind people of their morals before they post anything
on social media, maybe that could curb some of the misinformation
overload. Like a Pledge of Due Research.
With very clear wording and a checkbox.
No one likes change, but just like the telegraph to the telephone to the
cell phone, change is inevitable. So you
either grow and adapt or fall behind, which would you prefer to do?
If I was wrong, like I’ve said before, anyone in my family
would love to rub it in my face but they should also know ID LOVE TO BE PROVEN
WRONG but that has yet to be done. I
will never just accept what they think is reality for what reality actually is,
they see the world thru a tiny lens that also mirrors how they are as
well. I have a mind of my own and unlike
my dad, am very able to listen to others.
If it’s an opinion without a logical reasonable explanation then it’s
just like wind or hot air, but since I’m persuadable, I can entertain other’s ideas
without necessarily accepting them. It’s
kinda like hearing someone out, or allowing them to speak or convince you of
something….
If my family is actually smart, why do they communicate secretly and
behind other’s backs and not out in public?
If they knew they were right they would have no problem sharing it with
everyone.
One other thing I find odd, why would cyndie be letting someone else know that her sister was in the hospital yet not a one of them care to listen to her? Me and her helper, who is a godsend for her sister, my mother and sister have proven they do not care at all. So who are they spreading this information when they shouldn’t even be allowed to know it? People who actually visit her and truly care (and not in a from a distance way or even over the phone way) are the only one’s who should be allowed to know because that information is private, and all my family does is spread 2nd and 3rd hand information told to them from other family or people that work for them, do you think that they would ever disagree with them even if they knew they were wrong? Only if they wanted to be picked on or alienated from the little click that Kristen and cyndie have made in the McGaslighter heritage LOL.
Social connections is what they lack, people
that they have honest loving connections with as few as one but even better
like 4-10 good, reliable friends that they support and it goes both ways. I know this is the key to a longer happier
life but when your family is hell bent on causing a few only misery by
isolating them, belittling them, and talking about them when they are not there
is the PROBLEM. No decision that affects
us should ever be made without US PRESENT.
So now I ask them, Who organized the family when me and my aunt were
moved out of where we used to live? I
can show them quite easily exactly what it’s like without hurting anyone or
anything but I bet not a one of them would volunteer to be shown what it’s like. but they
had no problem doing it to us, so it should be done to them as well because
they lack empathy so unless it happens to them they will never understand, so they need to be shown period.
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