After watching Shallow Hal this morning, which was an actual coincidence.... possibly

 

This bird uses a diplay to attract it's mate instead of merit ;) lol

I realized something while watching Shallow Hal,  all the people that for some strange reason, make themselves vulnerable when talking to me or when they are around me, always open up to me, but the only one's that are worried are the one's who hide their true narcissistic selves don't, but occasionally have.  These people have stopped all contact and don't want to be confronted due to me knowing so much of the hatred they spew about others.  Even my own mother, sister, and father, even my grandmother only responds when the topic is about her!  I never truly realized I had grown up around so many narcissists!  One person in particular should know, that I'm not superficial at all but the 2 women she associated herself with, the one she worked with always wondered why I liked her because to her (her outsides reflect her insides) she thought she was so ugly and I would always tell her "look, beauty is in the eye of the beholder" because who I saw back then was beautiful even without a single bit of makeup at all.  I cared for her just the way she was and it just saddens me that so many people can't simply communicate like adults and also in a polite, not rude way. or have manners and speak then let the other speak.  This era, people have become only focused on themselves rather than the collective wellbeing of all of us.