YOLO Anytime you confront a narcissist with the truth they get defensive instead of asking "Why" and also..



 I see many possibilities out there who are supportive, helpful, women who have been charmed by a narcissist who are narcissistic to varying degrees, and if they did like my middle aunt did and chose a guy who is a little outside what they are familiar with they might see that I can adapt to just about any person or situation but the most important part is equality and being somewhat independant, and honesty is the quality I value the most, I'm just too shy but I can't be anyone but myself which is a supportive, patient, honest, tech savvy person who has only needed one supportive woman in my life but instead in the past I let the women choose me which puts me in an awkward position, needing someone who has some shared qualities or aspirations and opposites don't attract it's the charmers that charm the supportive ones to them, and usually lie about something because I've noticed that exaggeration and lying, or bending of rules has become the social norm but it shouldn't be, and I will never participate, tear down someone I care about, or give up when so many have just given up or moved on, on me.  My life still has so many possibilities, just like my ideas I've proven, I knew would be successful on youtube by showing when I was researching bitcoin, had an idea like doordash called wegoshop right before it made it to arkansas.  Lastly, I have and can explain why I feel the way I feel about anything without being vague and my memory is exceptional compared to my families, who i'm distancing myself from due to their narcissism.

I know no one is perfect but check out what qualities people who believe they have found their soulmates have:

People who believe they have found their soulmates commonly share the following qualities:

  • They connect on a soul level, with an intuitive sense of deep compatibility that feels like knowing each other their whole lives. This includes finishing each other's sentences, feeling each other's energy, and sharing the same morals and vision. This connection often promotes personal growth and self-awareness.

  • Their soulmate meaningfully contributes to their life by inspiring, uplifting, supporting, and working with them through challenges, resulting in a strong sense of happiness and security.

  • Being with their soulmate makes them feel comfortable, at peace, and safe. There is trust, freedom to be themselves, and no jealousy or control issues.

  • Communication with their soulmate is easy and natural. They can openly express themselves, rarely argue destructively, and resolve conflicts constructively.

  • Their soulmate is emotionally available, openly sharing feelings and vulnerability, which fosters intimacy and validation.

  • They view their relationship as a true partnership, co-creating a future together, honoring mutual agreements, and supporting each other's best selves with unconditional love.

  • Their soulmate cherishes and respects them for who they are, treating the relationship as sacred and nurturing it, leading to a deep sense of security and belonging, like feeling at home.

  • Other signs include a strong sense of familiarity, trust built on vulnerability, unconditional love despite flaws, acting as a team supportive to each other's emotional and practical needs, and a complete understanding of what love truly means.

These qualities form the basis of what people who feel they've found their soulmates often express, highlighting deep connection, trust, emotional availability, partnership, and unconditional love as the core elements.yourtango+4

  1. https://www.yourtango.com/love/person-has-these-qualities-psychology-says-found-true-life-companion
  2. https://mindforest.ai/post/soulmate-relationship
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  5. https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/soul-mate-signs-definition
  6. https://www.facebook.com/groups/interfusionfestival/posts/2739422846180867/
  7. https://www.facebook.com/groups/284265599097156/posts/1365548377635534/
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  9. https://www.aberdeennews.com/story/lifestyle/2017/09/26/if-you-have-these-7-things-in-common-youve-found-your-soul-mate/44665387/
  10. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soulmate

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