This is what angers me the most...


 

 Lack of Listening and Empathy 

I know I'm speculating what could have been caught if the management had simply checked the license plate and name I gave them for the black SUV next to mine and since I was right, asked me how I knew, then if they listened I would have told them the story of how Chris Freeman's mother talked to me one time while I was finishing a detail and she has already been traumatized enough as it is due to an accident that was not her fault which I verified by looking it up with perplexity with what few details I had and all I found out was a state trooper was the one who responded to the accident.  She told me about it and how she was in shock when it happened and also main piece of information is she had not been able to see her grand kids for the past few years but we had a great conversation where I listened and before she left for the therapy she was on her way to she said "I feel like I have already been to therapy" as a compliment to me being a good active listener to what she went thru.   She aslo said her son worked at phil wright but he may have switched jobs.

      One other possible case that should be looked into is the last apartment and job I was given which was whomever was in 817 14 because of their lock on the closet door and on the refrigerator, these things just seem odd as well as all the cheap flavored alcohol and sno-cone flavorings that were left in the apartment.

     What I believe could have helped which has been lacking is community engagement and whoever has creative control of the apartments being redone likes pointing out rules that he himself doesn't adhere to, and has also been a little nosey when I was working  as a painter and this text thread will verify that his sarcasm and talking badly about every other employee is toxic and if left unchecked will continue to spread like a virus.

Here's a link to the pdf version of the text thread.  The Green highlighted portions are me being helpful, the red are the most important and the yellow are other instances of his critques and in my life experience these types of people don't change just like my sister, if they talk badly about one or many then if gone unchecked it will only get worse. You can come to your own conclusions based on my facts and the text thread all by yourself.

    Me and my aunt are supposedly the "problems" in our family but I say one of my more recent blog posts is pretty easy to understand for people who aren't as biased as my family has been against me, when honesty has gotten me nowhere I'm still sticking with it.  I'm tired of not being heard, tired of only getting questions instead of answers to simple questions, I know people that have suffered abuse much worse than mine and that need help even more than I do because abusing your children even as adults should never be tolerated especially when a simple conversation or communication would have cleared up what I've had to bottle up for years.  Some people think they are above the law and my father is no exception, choosing not to tell the officer that I called about this time last year about him busting down my door and pushing me around which led to hyperventilating and his omitting that fact and that it was the 2nd time that had happened that year is why I know he never valued honesty, only his social status and my sister is just like him where I am more like my mother if she hadn't been convinced of all the lies or ONLY HEARING ONE SIDE of the story.  Just like with medical journals and clinical trials if you only see one side which publication bias leans toward only the positive trials and never even publishes all the negative clinical trials. 

 






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