When I asked an ai to write what a father (or any family) should do according to the bible this is what it said....

 According to the Bible’s values, a father should respond with support, compassion, guidance, and humility. In simple terms, Scripture points to these core responsibilities:

• Provide encouragement, not judgment.
“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” (Ephesians 6:4)

• Offer wisdom and guidance.
The father’s role is to teach, advise, and help a child grow in character, not just achievements. (Proverbs 1:8–9)

This verse is only relevant if my character is flawed but it's just the opposite in his case.

• Be present and supportive.
A biblical father walks with his child through hardship, offering comfort and stability. (Psalm 103:13)

• Show unconditional love.
Love isn’t based on success or milestones. (1 Corinthians 13)

Unconditional love or even love at all, is not something my family values, they value their material belongings and only to keep control or power over, even holding both me and my aunt from achieving our goals, whether intentional or not, I've told them enough times exactly what they are doing wrong and they are unable to listen at all, so I gave up on them. I'm not going to was another second of my life seeking any kind of validation from such greedy, materialistic, selfish people.

• Help without controlling.
Proverbs emphasizes counsel, not domination. A father should guide, not live his child’s life for him.

• Pray for his child’s well‑being.
Intercession for guidance, strength, and future blessings is a core biblical practice. (James 5:16)

So, if a son is struggling to find success, the biblical model says a father should encourage him, support him emotionally, offer wise direction, and love him through the process—not shame him, pressure him, or withhold connection.

There ya go, another good use of ai to use the their own religion to try and make them understand what they are doing absolutely wrong.  If anyone else can relate feel free to use this blog post as an example of how a father should be a good listener at the very least, even if they cannot teach anything that I don't already know, they should have backed me up regardless of who they thought was in the wrong and then if they ever used their time wisely they would have verified or listened to my side and given it equal weight then if they could prove me wrong, I would have listened if they had evidence, facts, or a very good explanation of which they had none.