The Truth about the McAlister/Loper family whether they like it or not....

 

This may be the saddest story ever told but the Truth needs to come out.   I know due to the stories I’ve been told that my father made my mother choose between him and her friends which no secure man would ever do, he never backed her up when he got home from working at the Nuclear Plant which over time has caused her to give up any resistance to his religious views and I even remember hearing him talk to his father even 6 months prior to my grandfather on his side passing away, which proves that he is incapable of listening to anyone.  Another similarity I find odd is that all throughout my life he was only interested in coaching me in sports rather than helping me with my self-confidence in my passion and the only way he ever encouraged good grades was the simplest, easiest way possible which was with money instead of taking any sort of interest in what I am not an expert in.  I now realize that my family doesn’t know what unconditional love is because anyone who charges their sister rent when she isn’t working due to a disability yet while she worked for the family didn’t charge her rent, isn’t showing their sister love, they are causing her more stress over money.   Another thing I find odd is reading the same book over and over again, can you imagine studying the same Math book or English book your entire lifetime?  Most teachers just use a book for one semester or year and most student’s absorb the information just fine.  That may be why my family studies the same book yet still hasn’t learned the basic principles of empathy, humility, and the saying about how hard it is for the rich man to get into heaven because anyone who loves money or things more than their connections to people will reap what they sow in the long run. 

    Now imagine my mother never having anyone back her up even when it came to spanking  me or my sister time and time again while her mother never backed her up, this is why she gave up trying to ever stand up for anyone and finally just gave in to whatever dad believes because as she has said “granny just sticks her head in the sand” and I’ve seen it done to both me and my aunt.  While my grandmother has had all the time in the world to listen to my aunt she has chosen to tune her out just as she chose to tune me out and turns a blind eye to the suffering that my father, mother, and sister have caused both me, my aunt and even my daughter. 

    Even my sister knows that she can’t take any of her concerns to my father because he likes “talking at people” not to them meaning he doesn’t listen with the intent to understand but only with the intent to reply but he cannot explain why he puts so much faith in a god he cannot see and no faith in his son which he knows is much smarter than him in so many ways.

   These things that he gave me advice about was: Vehicles ex. Being my daughters ex’s truck which I proved him wrong and that vehicle just needed to be driven, He’s tried to give me advice of how to act in front of a Judge and how many judge’s has he stood in front of throughout the years? 0. And if I were to use their(mostly dad’s) flawed logic I’d say “well I didn’t see you get robbed at mcb’s at gunpoint many years ago so therefore it didn’t happen, just like you graduating from college, I wasn’t there so therefore that didn’t happen just like their logic in not seeing the moon landing happen which is a conspiracy started by one man in the late 70’s early 80’s which only became mainstream after the covid pandemic.  If you use the reasonable logic that if it was staged it would be an easy secret to keep but since it wasn’t and it took literally  400,000 scientists to get us to the moon, you are basically saying that they don’t exist while I know science and due to the shows that I watch I’ve learned so many things that can be proven true and I always double check even the things I’ve learned from them or anything anyone tells me before I believe it.  Just like I just recently learned Petit Jean hot dogs are removing the synthetic dyes from their hot dogs in 2025 due to someone telling me about it, then I confirmed it with one simple search using perplexity.  This is why I say search for the things you want to know about whether it be politics, news, even local news, or laws being passed and don’t let the media lead you with click bait headlines that are also biased because advertiser’s are what drive their profits now.  Youtube has sooo much misinformation I never let it suggest anything to me, I merely use it as a tool to learn how to do certain things and even have to be picky as to which one I feel is most trustworthy due to how easily footage can be edited out for how long it takes to do something but good information or things for visual learners can be found on there but this is the most I would ever use it for. 

   I’ve worked for my family for 27 years so mainly the people my father has chosen to work for him were the people I, at one time or another, thought were friends or could be trusted turned out to be the very people who were dishonest, and never showed their true selves around him but when I was the only one around, people acted like themselves and I know how these people truly are because they trusted me because of how easy it is to talk to me and unlike them, I listen.  Just like the old saying while the cat’s away the mice will play, these employee’s showed their true selves to me while acting like they cared and did the job they were supposed to only while he was around.  The same goes for McB’s but the reason no one takes advantage of my sister is because of the one parent who actually backs her up and this is the only reason they don’t.  Yet they ask them their opinions and think they are getting a true honest opinion but if your job depended on whether you agreed or disagreed with the management, you would always just agree with management instead of ever giving their own honest opinions which has created their own echo chamber’s for their own biased belief’s.  I challenge anyone to prove me wrong about any of my family’s belief’s because if there’s one thing I do know, it’s my family.  What is truly sad about it all is they have chosen to isolate and/or exile me and my aunt for so many years yet that’s one reason I can’t stand in the same place for very long at all without my leg bothering me is due to 27 years of standing in the same spot taking care of customer’s while most of their lives they have said nothing but negative things about their own family, and never stood up for them at all, so it’s their misery that they want company in not vice versa. 

   So in summary my father and grandmother (who actually has a reason for her dismissiveness due to the physical violence she endured yet never even stood up for her youngest daughter when she needed backing up, nor did her oldest sister even stand up for her when she and my dad went to eat dinner at her and one of her boyfriend’s or husband’s houses and dad said “looks like there was a scuffle here” just goes to show how even thou my mother went thru the same she wouldn’t even stand up for her sister way back then) are the reason’s why people kept trying to take advantage of the most honest and was the most gullible people they knew because people knew that no one in the family stood up for each other except for me standing up for my aunt.  They have also time and time again stood up for the opposite side not even knowing what she or I have went thru because they were never there and only ASSUME things they do not know nor have they ever even listened to.  The usual response we have gotten is being tuned out or in mom’s case, eye rolls, saying whatever when she couldn’t explain her side and making fun of and blaming us for the same things they were doing behind closed doors.