This all started when she contacted me thru Facebook looking for a job at the Buccaneer.

"Be careful who you are talking to, because they just might be THE problem...." a good quote that is so true

It took 3 times messaging me for me to message Taylor back with a solid answer and at that time I wasn't working much at all probably because I was tired of supporting the grandiose narcist's dream of owning his own business when he should have been happy with the amount of money he made working at the nuclear plant. Anyways, since he never did background checks he hired anyone including LaTisha and Shane McCoy, even Ricky Holbrook. Ricky, he kind of guilted me into letting him stay at my apartment but he was there for over a year and I could not help him, and it was difficult to get rid of him too, because of my good nature. My father and Mother let the voyeuristic felon Shane McCoy stay in their old HUD house and they as in his family nearly burnt it down. He was recently charged with voyeurism of a person younger than 14 and I showed my dad this charge because one night I just one a whim looked him up on the court website and he has 2 associated names one with the middle name D and the other middle name A. Latisha's old felony from stealing from subway wasn't such a big deal but when the buccaneer closed and she couldn't have me she became a spiteful, jealous well she was always a complainer that I couldn't stand to even listen to it. She has always been a Grandiose narcissist and the spoiled brat of her family but since they don't have money or friends this is why I bet they came up with the plan that they did to attempt to set me up or extort me somehow either way, it was all ILLEGAL but due to my family's lack of communication and the biases that had been spread by my sister and the grandiose Narcissist of the new owner this made for the perfect storm of evil around me during 2023. I've proven so many of the things they said to my grandmother or mother to be contradictory yet no amount of proof will ever be enough for my mother and father so I say their punishment should be the same as what mom liked to do to me, DETENTION CENTER since they have never experienced it for themselves, they should before they ever even think of doing it to me or even, who knows, if they did that to my daughter, let's just say it BETTER not ever happen period, nuf said.

To be continued very soon, the next chapter will focus more on the person in the Title.

When she first started working at the Buccaneer, she said she was concerned and acted as though she was my friend. Taylor and I chatted for many weeks on facebook and I specifically remember asking her if she just needed a friend or if she was just lonely and she said "No" not at all, I also said I had no problem just being her friend as well but as the messaging back and forth was mostly about how her then boyfriend chose to hang out with his friends and get drunk and high rather than spend time with her, and this, just like when a family member of hers drank and drove, this also angered or probably worried her more than anything. We had a connection and I was the best listener for her and her emotional support for the repercussions of her own choices, all of which I tried to convince her not to do but she made all of her own choices and even made it a point to not take any advice so she wouldn't have anyone to blame later on. The only person she has ever been afraid of was her boyfriend, now husband, due to her choices. I was very reluctant but also very lonely. Honestly, I don't regret what I did because she was very insistent about not taking anyone's advice so she couldn't blame anyone. Also whoever told her she was a monster previously which could be either her ex-husband or her current husband, was absolutely wrong. The person she is currently is more of a monster than I have ever seen in the 4 or so years I've known her, and I'd be willing to bet that she is being controlled or manipulated by her husband because she is socially isolated and isn't able to get many other opinions rather than ones that were from either her husband who is superficial, or the "2 problems" Judy and Tisha that went to her work to spread rumors and gossip. They used triangulation to bring her into their twisted scheme. They also manipulated her and I did my best to warn her about them, but like so many things I cannot control others or make them do the right thing, not even my family could do the right thing......

here's something interesting:

Do People Tend to Pick Significant Others Who Resemble Their Parents' Personality Traits?

Summary:
Yes, research and psychological theory suggest that many people do tend to choose romantic partners who resemble their parents in terms of personality traits—both positive and negative.

Key Findings:

Subconscious Influence and Familiarity:
People often subconsciously seek out partners who have qualities similar to their parents or caregivers. This is because these traits feel familiar and are associated with love, family, and belonging15. Familiarity can be comforting, and early experiences with parents shape what individuals perceive as desirable or "normal" in a partner5.
Repetition of Patterns:
The phenomenon known as repetition compulsion describes how individuals may repeat relationship dynamics from childhood, sometimes even negative or traumatic ones, in an attempt to resolve past issues12. This can lead to choosing partners who echo both the positive and negative traits of one's parents.
Transference Effect:
Research from Michigan State University found that people tend to show romantic interest in individuals who resemble their exes or their parents, a process called transference. This tendency persists across age groups and is stronger in those confident in relationships3. The study suggests that people are drawn to familiarity, even if previous relationships with similar people were unsuccessful3.
Psychological Conditioning:
Theories in psychology propose that people can become conditioned to be attracted to a specific "parental personality type," influenced by early attachment experiences78. Both psychoanalytic and evolutionary perspectives support the idea that mate selection may be biased toward parental traits8.
Anecdotal and Clinical Observations:
Counselors and psychologists report that while some people consciously seek partners unlike their parents, many find themselves attracted to those with similar traits, often without realizing it54. Personal accounts often reflect this pattern, noting both intentional and unintentional similarities between partners and parents4.

Important Nuances:

The tendency to choose partners like one's parents is not universal. Some individuals actively seek partners who are very different from their parents, especially if their parental relationships were negative5.
A partner may share some traits with a parent but still be a distinct individual with their own unique personality5.

Conclusion

While not true for everyone, there is significant evidence that people often, consciously or unconsciously, choose significant others who resemble their parents in personality traits. This pattern is rooted in psychological familiarity, early attachment experiences, and the human tendency to seek comfort in the known, even when those patterns are not always healthy1 35.

This explains why mom chose a grandiose narcissist like my father who is a lot like my grandmother in their quest for social status and inability to listen...

It's also probably why I wanted it to work out with Taylor is stubborn, only answers in short one word texts, and dislikes any questions but I was vulnerable with her, trusted her, thought she was my best friend at one time, and I let her break my heart 3 times, Interesting right? Since I know Michael used the gift of puppies to win her back in the beginning but she still talked to me because I listened to her and supported her emotionally even thou she hates emotions, he is likely controlling everything she does and how long do you think someone will be happy, being told what to do and when to do it? If it were me, not very long at all. It's kind of like how mom goes along with whatever dad believes as far as religion goes and can't think for herself, and Kristen is just like dad but has played the victim for so long and is the one always seeking out validation from mom. As children we both always went to mom because she was the only one that ever listened, we both knew dad talked at people and not with people so we saved our breath but she is now the same way except in a more covert, passive aggressive way. And her addictions is the drama of playing both sides and dividing the family just like dad and granny, they all think THEY are right and cannot communicate with each OTHER except for what Kristen says to one and then pretends to have empathy then talks negatively behind the other family members back of which I have witnessed many times throughout my lifetime.

I also have several good idea's on how modern relationships should be done, in more of a contract like format with simple easy to understand expectations that both agree to and sign and notarized that they revisit every 6 months or anniversary as well. I have these great ideas all the time but people are afraid of what they don't understand or who actually challenges their authority on any topic. I'm a lifelong learner and since 2023 I've studied psychology topics so basically I have a bachelor's in psychology if you ask me, am an expert in Computers, a minor in maintenance, love helping other's, believe all relationships should be equal or at least very close to it. There should never be a power imbalance because people always take advantage of power they may have over someone, always.

One thing Taylor does as well is somewhat conform to whomever she is with's beliefs but when we dated she was free to do as she pleased and the major thing is I was not jealous. I've learned that anyone who tries to isolate someone, it's usually because they are treating them badly and know if other's where to chime in or state their opinions about it, it might sway that person into deeper thought about the person. The other thing is I may be wrong but I bet her husband didn't put that nice new suv in her name because he is more materialistic and probably knows it's not going to last forever, and Taylor used to call me a momma's boy but he truly is one, and used to try to make her think he was biking all these ridiculous amount of miles when that was likely just a tracker on his vehicle or some sort of trick just to get her curiosity, lastly, like I told her I know I never sent guys her way because I honestly have never given up on anyone with the exception of my younger years I may have gave up on one person, and know how to compromise and we both made some compromises during that 2 and 1/2 year time but the one she wouldn't do was talk about progression in the "relationship" she called a "friendship". I just don't get why she would want to go back to someone that she obviously wasn't happy with after the first 2 years and expect things to get better. Forgiveness and trust can be rebuilt but it does require the person to stop doing the things they need forgiveness for, otherwise your just allowing them to do it to you time and time again. I would say, "Why is it that her husband is so scared of her simply talking to me and letting her give me closure if he isn't insecure about me telling her the truth which is the only thing I'm searching for?"

more to come . . . .unless I can simply get an honest conversation out of her then this would end.

What people don't know is that in the beginning when I was moved without my consent back to my mom and dad's house, there were several nights I was literally screaming at the top of my lungs and made myself horse and the names have always stayed the same, Judy, Tisha, Kyle, and David. Little did I know my "plays the victim" sister was actually part of the problem as well likely due to her and my mom being two faced similar to the people who tortured me for 4 or 5 months but they just brushed it off, even then I told them "Lawyer, phone records, ask them exchange of information, Yes or No, then you will have your answer. Guess what... I was RIGHT but I'm still in the process of making them exchange me information but their attempts at denying service will be futile because the law is the law.

In the 2 years of aftermath from that horrible year, I've realized just how much I've been taken advantage of and I now know "MY" worth. So let's add up what a person who can troubleshoot PC problems, can do general maintenance, detail vehicles, clean carpets, fix some or most electronics, is the best active listener or able to put myself in someone else's shoes and truly understand their perspective, have been a counselor, therapist, and in my 2 years of research have basically become a psychologist, although I didn't necessarily want to follow this path, I did respect someone else's dad for being a Jack of all trades and that's exactly what I have become minus a few things like welding and motor work. I've had to be my own lawyer, I've stood up for many who couldn't stand up for themselves, and all the while, have been taken advantage of by other's that I trusted but each time I learn, and it becomes easier to spot the one's that are just out to take advantage of me, this is why the liars in my life or narcissist's have stop communicating with me because they know that I know their secrets and this alone scares them and keeps them at bay for now. Now they know I won't take any crap or be used or taken advantage of anymore. I had to do all this and even deal with all this all by myself, while the vulnerable narcissist sister still seeks validation from her mother, and my mother is just not there. It's sad that me and her are the same but she is off in what my grandmother would call LALA Land.

I told them what I needed in so many ways, all I needed was SUPPORT and I never imagined that my family was so self-centered, it's like I was blind or ignorant to it for so long but now that my eyes see all the toxic behaviors, I can' t unsee them, so as they say ignorance is truly bliss, and they are the most blissful in their ignorance. They don't respect my knowledge I've gathered over a lifetime nor are they grateful for what I used to do for them but I know someone out there would care and if and when I meet that person, then I will have the confidence to do whatever I put my mind to but I'll always be the nice, honest, humble person I've always been, it's just so saddening that people are so jealous of a guy that helps anyone that asks him for help and they participate in the rumors and lies that those old neighbors have spread or the false narrative. My family was so willing to believe anything negative and toss out all the positive things with the garbage never giving all the positive things I've done even while going thru PTSD symptoms and finally realizing I had ADHD due to my daughters diagnosis but my evil sister has already poisoned her against me but I'm not to worried because my daughter is smart like I am, she just needs to be away from the toxicity of work life that my sister has created then she'll slowly come back around.

What's even more messed up is the fact that not a single one of my family member ever heard me out, not even one single time, they ASSUMED and were fed lies from the very people causing the problem, while also contributing to the problem themselves.

I'll say this much, I really can't remember a whole lot of that 2 and 1/2 year period but there's a good reason for that..... I was happy for the most part. I or shall I say we had the best time during the lockdown during COVID, Nuf said about that.

When did people acting like children become OK? All that would have been required for me to have closure would have been just a simple honest conversation and answering 2 easy questions which I did ask by sending a note or 2 thru Heather, those were the only questions I honestly need answers to and yet I know good and well she has lied to me, used all those text me now numbers to harass me instead of having a direct conversation, also I told her why I couldn't ever get on the video chats with google chat but it's obvious she doesn't get what closure is. I'm gonna explain it from her perspective. Let's say one day, your husband just up and leaves and doesn't say a single word and you don't know why but your left wondering "what happened?, what did I do? Was it something I did? Did he find someone else? and every other possible question will run thru your mind. This is why closure is important, and another thing, if she "loves" her husband so much why would she and him BOTH not want me to be able to move ON?? This is a question I wish even Josh would have asked them, he could have said "So why is it such a problem for you to have a simple conversation with mr. loper? or what are you honestly afraid is going to happen?" but instead he I guess didn't ask those simple questions and is basically facilitating them to continue to torture me indirectly, "in my opinion".

From my perspective, all this I've went thru is only encouraging me to exaggerate or lie instead of being honest because my honesty has only gotten me more grief from every single person I trusted in my life so far. If anyone can find some evidence to the contrary or an good explanation that makes logical sense and explain it to me then I'd LOVE to hear it. That's one thing no one is willing to do is explain anything to the best LISTENER of whom is rare. Only 5% of the population are great active listener's. While research says there are about the same Narcissistic Personality Disorders, that number is skewed because of the covert and passive aggressive nature and their hiding of their bad behaviors behind closed doors, so no truly accurate number can ever be established, but on the active listener side those can be counted easily because THEY LISTEN.

One thing every single person listed in my court case should ask themselves: When was the last time you did anything nice for a stranger or said anything nice about your own family or even me, at all? When's the last time you listened to a person in need or volunteered to help even a minority due to the social norms I can likely answer it but I'd prefer defendant in my case to describe the last truly generous thing they did and expected nothing in return.........

I have done things like this for every one of them except for Kyle Lynch who has enough money to pay people to do everything for him, every single other person I either was honest with you or have done many nice things and gotten nothing but grief in return, would you say that is correct?....

My best guess as to why Taylor can't simply come talk to me is because once she's away from the one that is lying to her the most, reason and logic might just make her realize how much he and several other's have been gaslighting her into believing lies about me. If she could remember anything that I did to her or wronged her in any way she could have mentioned them one of the 2 times I went into Dollar General or even thru the google chat yet she mentioned not a single thing and like I said the only time she's ever been scared of someone physically it was her husband when he broke all the furniture in the house right before he left and I was there for her to help her thru it, even thou I didn't cause it, she was suspicious that I did it on purpose and I can say still to this day, I didn't do it and what happened accidentally was mainly due to her own choices, not mine, but what she did was just wanted to have both or couldn't make up her mind, and I've never pushed my beliefs on her, I let her think for herself. She doesn't have many people to talk to to get an honest perspective but I used to be one of those people. She also said she expressed how she felt with the songs she listened to and the one she had picked out for that period in time was "Bonnie and Clyde" I think but I can't remember honestly if that 's the right song or not and I would pick out a different song "One thousand years" by Christina Perri. For some reason that song makes me emotional if I really listen to it...

I remember Taylor telling me how much she disliked how her ex-husbands parents treated her for what I know is likely the same disorder I have but for different reasons. She got it due to her mother's use of opiates, whereas my disorder is due to genetics. I see mine as a gift and not a curse, the only curse is my family of narcissistic personalities who don't stand up for anyone and that evil narcissistic family who gaslit me for 4 or 5 months straight while feeding my non-cooperative and my family who cannot communicate with each other at all except for the one that plays both sides, Kristen.

What they've also never done is asked me what I do with my free time while I've tried talking with them and everything with my family is just a competition instead of working together they just compete. If this was a competition for who listened the best, who do you think would win, oh family of mine??... because as you isolate yourselves and don't listen, I am still like a sponge and researching and continuing to learn more everyday and I even help strangers on most days so my INFOMATION comes from many sources, I'm just supercharged now with AI and my disorder in check... this is why you should be scared.....

and Taylor if your reading this.. anything you told LaTisha she probably told anyone who would listen to the crap she says because she did this with heather the one time I vented to her, she told her the very next day so I would assume everything you told her and Judy at your work or even on facebook they made public, even telling Michael as well, and I'd be willing to bet Judy's nosiness, was the one who might have told your father what she listened to thru the shared wall more than likely because she slandered my name years ago and I thought I knew people, those people I was so very wrong about but I was suspicious of them ever since I turned Tisha's advances down, she is a jealous spiteful, complainer that will never be happy and is the spoiled brat of her family and also talked badly about you, and Michael, just like her mother did about her being a slob (and that's no joke she is lazy). If you want to see some of the many SCENARIO's these gaslighters used click here just go to chapter 9 where it specifically mentions them.

Also, for those that are reading this that may be defendants in my case, I have still been journaling and keep up with all the things I do for strangers and other's with date's and times just no names. I can prove all the good I do, can you prove your worth to society? . . . .

I can say with certainty what causes a lack of self-confidence in most people, especially myself, because I've seen the most self-confident 3 year old and I asked her grandmother if she knew why she was so confident just to make sure she knew, and as I thought it was because she backs up anything the grandchild says, much like my parents should have backed me up. So Chris & Cyndie, even Granny, here's your problem, BACK UP YOUR FAMILY and LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE with each other just like I told Julie when she visited the one time when I was at those apartments "The family needs to learn how to communicate with each other better".

This is the only reason the person who plays the victim or is a vulnerable narcissist, doesn't have people take advantage of her is due to her constant need for approval and backing up from her MOTHER. If you read the beginning portion my mother married someone exactly or close to her mother in that they are Grandiose narcissist's and this is why she used to say granny sticks her head in the sand and now she is doing exactly the same as granny and even dad does while Kristen plays both sides against each other. I have come up with a clever slogan for my family: The NON-VERBAL NATION "my family has a hotline straight to voicemail." or The Distant DNA Club "We only share DNA and disappointment" , The Relative-Strangers Roster "In my family the only thing deeper than their conspiracy theories is their level of Denial" These funny ways to describe my family is just one way I've been able to cope with their dismissive, grandiose, and vulnerable narcissistic behaviors I was blind to up until recently.

I've learned soo many things while being somewhat isolated, I've learned that I have more patience that I could have ever even imagined, I've learned about so many psychology topics including gaslighting, narcissistic tendencies and personalities, and what the opposite of a narcissist is, and I never even realized how many people or women in my family exhibit some of the personalities or tendencies. I've also learned about so many different illogical fallacies or biases that so many people are unaware of as well but the main one everyone should know about and has is confirmation bias. We all seek out things to confirm what we already believe to be true, the only difference is some of us are aware of our biases and some are very much unaware of them. The best way to prove or disprove anything you believe is simply to try to disprove it or play devil's advocate and have people try to poke holes in your theory, and if they cannot, then you know you have a very good theory that may be fact. The Baaider-Meinhoff Illusion is what explains why I see these behaviors everywhere now because once you eyes are open to them, you can't unsee them. It's just like when you get a new car and then suddenly you notice the same type of car everywhere. This youtube video about 21 mind traps explains it best.

Here's a short video explainer, more to come soon....

This is what my research thru perplexity.ai has found that I also believe will solve so many of the problems with our democracy that is being shaken to it's very core by all of the misinformation out there.

I've already heard mention of rumors about Kyle Lynch, I wonder how many people haven't spoke up because of fear of his money, or perceived status or power? I also wonder what he does in his free time, and what Judy does in her free time (mainly because I know she has no hobbies or skills), and I also wonder what LaTisha is going to do in her free time since she has sooo many medical problems (likely due to all the spite and hatred she spews, and complaining that no one want's to be around). What will these people do with so much free time on their hands and here in Arkansas there's literally nothing to do so why not DO SOME RESEARCH before you say, post or in any way spread things you have no clue what is or isn't true.

I have found out that it truly seems that trump supporters are more likely to exaggerate, or even spread misinformation or "alternative facts" which may not be true for all of them but so far it's proven true many times to me. I'm still looking for a "Trumper" who is actually waking up to what is truly going on in the government as we speak. There is a Republican super majority as I would call it. There's a Majority conservative republican judges in the supreme court (Judicial branch), Republican majority's in the house and senate (Legislative branch) and a Republican president that is testing the limits of the presidential powers (Executive branch) and also replacing so many federal jobs with "Loyalists" or people who won't disagree with him. So how exactly are there any checks and balances in this so called DEMOCRACY?

Anyone want to explain to me who keeps our government in check to make sure they don't get drunk with power?

I say take some time to do your own introspection & assessment of yourself and your actions, and ask yourself, "have I ever tried to see this from anyone else's perspective other than my own biased perspective?" Is it even possible for me to see the world thru someone else's eyes when "I/They" don't listen to anyone else's opinion but those who share their own biased view of the world or people. Try stepping out of your comfort zone and asking someone you disagree with and actually, TRULY actively listen to their perspective for the first time in your life. You may find it very enlightening. Those who are unable to do this are beyond help and are so closed minded that there's no point in even trying to persuade them. However I have always kept my mind open yet I have seen nothing but things that only either keep my suspicion going or are neither positive or negative.

One thing I don't get, If someone you know to be a very proficient computer person has: 1.their main facebook hacked into by a what's app #, another one created without their knowledge with their gmail, has one with a number attached to it pop up on a prepaid phone they bought and even used a different gmail they just created, as well as had their optimum messed with 4 times only to find the box with (a lock usually) the lock gone and it cut thru with bolt cutters, and finds a strange app named chrome remote web view connected to their google account all in the span of July to December of 2023, and that app requires physical access to connect it to a pc, which i just recently learned about because, I USE QUICK ASSiST to help who I help remotely, and have even done that in the past week.

Another thing is the people that use me or any of my services one time, always call me for help with more things and become friends of mine but oddly none of these people are on facebook or other forms of media that could be promoting my services. I had no problem getting plenty of work back in 2000 when I was detailing cars by McB's but since then it's been a lot fewer and farther between getting jobs even with a digital business card bit.ly/DLOpaint and regular business cards or word of mouth, I can only wonder what might be the cause of this, and this is one reason for my civil case as well.

Now here's a test I know what the answer will be but it may surprise all the people that know my family. It's like how my mother said she was going to "distance" herself from one of her employee's who was simply going thru something, well her son was and , unlike my mother, she was worried sick. Instead of listen or help her in any meaningful way she cut her hours and said the above statement.

I would ask her, well what would you do for a victim of child abuse who needed someone's help more than anything right now? would you distance yourself from them, not help them, or not HELP ME HELP THEM? I'd guess all of the above but absolutely the 2nd and 3rd ones for sure. This is important because if I am proven correct then the very people my mother and father were listening to were absolutely trying to set me up to look like some sort of pervert which relates to the very first police call I made against David Jones and his comment he made and then later on a mysterious facebook account along with a contact named Chevy were added on a prepaid phone I bought at Dollar General while I was sound asleep, as well as many other "strange" supposed coincidences......

I am owed money by this person but I'm never going to ever ask for it back , do you know why? Guess you'll have to ask me that question yourselves, because other's owe me far less (LaTisha, Judy, Heather & my family) but have been the torturer's and I can somewhat relate to what she's been thru except her's IS FAR MORE complex and stressful and I cannot even imagine how she is able to make it thru each and every day, and is even making progress but she needs support just like I did and made my problems feel tiny comparatively. Unlike my EX, whether I was married, single, or even in a relationship, I would still help them regardless, and if whomever I was with said no, then I'd tell them to "kick rocks". That's the difference between doing what's right and doing what's easy to do. I haven't even finished helping other's today and what does my family sit and do everyday, while also going out to eat, being the laziest and spending the most money, has the most space, and has even turned my own daughter against me. I hope they don't wonder why I called them (mom and dad) pathetic so many times, because I am right and I'll let the evidence they didn't even want to see PROVE IT.

Here's the main question each and every person in my civil suit should ask themselves, If the problem is me then why is it when I get a new customer they end up becoming my friends and have me do some many different tasks, all of which I have no problem doing at all, and even have out of state customers that I have retained? Also when so many have validated how I feel about even my current situation, it makes me feel like i'm not so alone, and these are people all across the spectrum from the political to religious and everything in between, do you think all these people are wrong in how they perceive me? Or is it just the smart and more observant one's that truly notice and appreciate me and everything I can do for them?.....

I went by my grandmother's house today to give her a summary of my almost my entire blog which turned out to be over 200 pages long, but the summary was only 8 pages so as you can imagine many of the details and dates etc. were not included but just like normal when I brought up an idea I had a while back and even my nephew backed it up, my middle aunt immediately dismissed and I've sent them several letters letting them know about their dismissive behaviors and it's hard to forgive people who continue to dismiss things even when they are told about the behaviors that have cause me and even my other aunt so much pain and trauma (her's is much more than mine) over the years. I just wonder when they are going to actually admit that things can improve and start listening without judgement or the need to reply or shoot down someone's good idea's just like my idea to add a free air line at Mc'B's. My mother would not even hear of it even thou I was going to do all the work, this is why the business is slowing down, and all they have to blame is their selves, no one else. My dad and granny are only interested in telling their own stories or social status yet letting me and my aunt suffer for so long, do they not think that will impact their social statuses? It most certainly will because it's all already public, and someone had to shed light on it, and that had to be me!

I used to have faith my family would take my side when it came down to it, now I know they only take the sides of those that agree with them. I used to have faith that the police were there to protect people, but now I know they can so easily be used to bully, or fearmonger someone, and not be able to communicate clearly themselves or even take someone's concern's seriously, yet never explain why they have came to the "assumptions" or "opinions" of me, not knowing me at all. While I'm curious to know why they don't engage the communities they serve to get to know them better, they or some of them only serve as messengers for complaints never asking the person complaining a simple question...."Why are you making this complaint" or "What do you hope to accomplish by making this complaint and can you tell me what you hope to accomplish by this?" Another thing is, when taking a complaint to they even ask for , in this case, the email that the complaint is about so that the officer can access whether it is a valid complaint or not? or does this complaint process require no proof whatsoever, just a phone call? Another point I'd like to make is when you ask someone to stop doing something, first you need to tell them who is complaining, what exactly they are complaining about, and why it needs to stop. When none of this information is available then logically, the person doesn't know what to stop, and to whom to stop doing it too, and why. Lastly, what do investigators do exactly? do they just follow up on baseless complaints or do they actually investigate criminal behavior or crimes? Because unless I make a direct threat to someone other than trying to notify them of a civil lawsuit that is pending in circuit court, a normal informational email IS NOT A CRIME NOR DOES IT EVEN WARRANT A COMPLAINT. If I'm wrong then I would like to complain about each and every piece of spam or junk mail in my inbox because it's very annoying and cluttering up my inbox, is that what investigators do these days? seems like it.

What about when someone uses several different textmenow numbers to say derrogatory things to someone, and then tells them "it wasn't them" when I clearly heard their voice and even let my mother hear it as well, would you say that is harassment? Would you say I did their job for them if I emailed the service called SinchVOIP and emailed the abuse department and got the very phone number the police are to use to find out who owned the account that was harassing me? Or is that not important but email complaints are? Do investigators investigate when someone's accounts get broken into or hacked for the first time ever and 2 accounts created without their knowledge or consent? Because that happened too. Do investigators investigate physical harassment which is a crime especially when the victim calls the police or does the officer "claim" to not understand what happened or did my father simply lie about what transpired that day, thinking the laws do not apply to him because he is "special"?

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This all started when she contacted me thru Facebook looking for a job at the Buccaneer.

Do People Tend to Pick Significant Others Who Resemble Their Parents' Personality Traits?

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